September 25, 2005
Rev. Dr. Frank Carpenter,
D.Min.
St. John's Unitarian Universalist Church, Cincinnati, OH
Let
us not desire peace,
let us practice peace.
Let
us not seek afar for peace;
let us open our hearts in compassion and love.
Let
us not look for the softer easier path to human relationships,
let us work for justice, equity in being with others.
Let
us not turn a deaf ear to the stories of our friends;
let us listen to each others’ accountings
of our lives.
Let
us not desire peace;
let us practice peace.
Let
us be at peace in the silence
Peace
be with you. Amen
This
morning in our concluding hymn, We Shall
Overcome”, we will sing “Deep in my heart, I do believe, we shall live
in peace someday.”
This
is the age old longing of humanity, this living in peace, this peaceable kingdom
where lion and lamb lie down together. This
is our dream, our longing. And there
are times when we need to restore this dream of hope and peace.
This morning I want to urge upon you once again the message of Jesus,
of Gandhi, of Dr. King, that the path to peace is peace, and that violence
leads to violence. Collaboration is
more powerful than coercion, Hatred breeds hatred; resentment fosters resentment.
Let us therefore live in peace in the hope that someday all the world
shall live in peace.
This
choice between peace and violence is the great challenge of our day. In his book, THE UNCONQUERABLE WORLD, Jonathan
Schell writes, “Fifty eight years after
These
decisions are at various dimensions, different levels. We need to practice peace, understand that violence
breeds violence at all levels of our lives.
In our responsive reading, Lao-Tse spoke of these levels: nation, city,
and home concluding that if there is to be peace in these different dimensions,
there must be peace in our hearts. I believe that our hearts will be at peace
as we understand that violence fails us, that violence only leads to violence.
Lao-Tse
reminds us that if there is to be peace in the world, our nation must be peaceful.
Have we seen the failure of violence at a national, global level?
I believe that one of the many lessons we may draw from the war in
Why
are we at war in
A
leading scholar of how scarce resources cause of war is Michael Klare of
More
than that, violence breeds violence. In
the past few weeks, the Saudi Prime Minister, Prince Saud al-Faisal, has been
warning that the war in
Lao-Tse
tells us that for there to be peace in our nation, there needs to be peace
in the cities. What about our city?
I am hopeful that the cause of peace has a new foundation here in
It
is all too easy to set up an opposition between police and the community.
Instead of community and police seeing each other as part of an overall effort
to make our lives more peaceful, police and community members may see each
other as “them” versus “us.” This ‘us versus them’ dynamic aggravates of violence.
This
past month, Rick Biehl and Cassandra Robinson of the
One
of the major issues challenging the realization of the Collaborative Agreement
is communication. How do citizens of
At
its meeting last Wednesday evening, the Board of St. John’s voted to become
a Friend of the Collaborative. As each
Friend needs to submit a work plan, the Board’s work plan includes urging
the entire congregation – that is you - to vote for
Lao-Tse
says that for our world to be peaceful, our nation must be peaceful; for a
nation to be peaceful, our city must be peaceful. And for our city to be peaceful, our families
need to be peaceful. It seems to me
that our homes are one of the great places to practice peace. Violence breeds violence. If you have lived in an abusive or alcoholic
family, you know how readily the slightest thing can lead to great pain and
suffering.
At
one point I needed great spiritual sources to practice peace. My step son and I didn’t get along. His purple Mohawk wasn’t the problem. What was difficult was that fairly regularly
he would challenge me, saying he had a gun in his room and was going to shot
me in my sleep. It would have been
easy to be caught up in the cycle of violence, responding to his violent statements
with my own demand to search his room. I
knew that challenging him in any way would be an escalation. It would only
worsen the situation. And so far, I am still here.
In
our families we can be caught up in the great rush to be on time, to get to
school, to arrive at work appropriately dressed, with the right face on. Children and others may not appreciate our sense
of urgency and it is all too easy to speak harshly or make demands on one
another. A child may disagree with
you. It is may seem that you are being
challenged as to who knows more, challenged to play the game of who is right. Having the right answer to a question your child
asks may not, in fact, be what the question is about at all. Your child may be pushing your buttons just
to see how you are going to react. And
how do you react?
Let
there be peace in your heart.
Lao-Tse
says for there to be peace in our world, there must be peace in our nation. For the cycle of violence to end in our nation,
there must be peace in our communities. For
violence not to breed violence in our cities, there must be peace in our families.
And, Lao-Tse concludes, for there to be peace in our families, we need
peace in our hearts.
And
who would not have peace in their heart? But
wishing is one thing and having it in our hearts quite something else.
We need to have peace in our hearts. Do you have peace in your heart? How does peace happen in your heart?
For
there to be peace in our hearts, we need to monitor our emotions. Some attitudes, some feelings lead to peace.
Some lead to anger. It is easy when alone to be at peace. By oneself, not in a rush to get anywhere, we
can count our breaths, take the time to be mindful of the steps we walk, to
notice the changing colors of the trees. However,
we also need to practice mindfulness, self awareness, in times when it is
not easy.
One
of our emotions that is most corrosive of peace in our hearts is envy, covetousness.
It’s the only emotion that has a Commandment about it: don’t covet
your neighbors spouse, don’t covet your neighbors SUV.
Covetousness,
envy eats away peace in our hearts. What is envy? I was watching a National Geographic programs
once about monkeys. As usual, I was
surfing the channels, and came upon the program as they were showing how macaques
make noises by clattering small stones together and moving them around on
rock ledges. An interesting means of communication, I thought.
The show went on to something else: they showed a macaque holding single
rock, as if it were holding a child or favorite toy, perhaps a transition
object. Weird, I thought.
And they commented that macaque’s seemed to treasure them, even though
there were lots of rocks just like it all around.
They
continued with the macaques interested in treasured rocks: a higher status
macaque would come along and take the rock away from the first macaque and
he would treasure it. All these rocks around and it’s just this one rock that
the alpha macaque wants! Now that’s covetousness. Here are the roots of violence,
I thought to myself.
The
Geographic special continued by flipping over to a pre-school classroom. They showed the same behavior among little kids.
A child, perhaps three years old, spontaneously went over to a shelf
and picked up a teddy bear that had been sitting there for hours, maybe days,
totally neglected and out of mind. The child took the teddy back to his seat, sat
down.
What
happened next? You guessed it; some
other child came over and grabbed the teddy away. From being totally uninteresting, the teddy
bear became the source of a fight. That
is envy, and that greediness, covetousness destroys peace in our hearts. When we fear we do not have enough, when we
fear we will be left behind, we need to renew our commitments to peace, to
walk in peaceful ways each day of our lives.
In our reading this morning, Thich Nhat Hahn
told us,
If you nourish your hatred and your anger, you
burn yourself. Understanding is the
only way out. If you understand, you
will suffer less, and you will know how to get to the root of injustice. The Buddha said that if one arrow strikes you,
you’ll suffer. But if a second arrow
hits you in the same spot, you’ll suffer one hundred times more. When you
are a victim of injustice, if you get angry, you will suffer one hundred times
more. (page 204)
Violence
breeds violence. If the cycle of violence is to be broken, let it begin with
us, let it begin here.
“Deep in my heart, I do believe that we shall
live in peace.” Treasure this seed
deep in your heart. Jesus once said
that those who live by the sword shall die by the sword. This does not mean necessarily that those who
swing their swords will not die peaceably in their beds. We know better that that. What I believe Jesus meant, is that in the universe,
embedded deep in our hearts, is the knowledge that hatred and bitterness destroy,
and that peace and joy build us up.
As
Lao-Tse taught, for there to be peace in our world, our nation needs to be
at peace. Peace in our nations requires
peace in our communities. Ending the cycle of violence in our communities
rests upon peace in our families. Peace
in our families begins with peace in our hearts.
Violence
has failed us. Let us live in peace.